Being a parent is the most important role you will hold. You are responsible in caring for and raising a little human. It is the most rewarding, challenging job you will ever have. So, what are the biggest rules to take into parenting?
Consistency
Be consistent in everything that you do. Expectations, reliability, moods, and habits. Consistency is essential in establishing a good relationship in which there is an understanding of what is expected.
Set Boundaries
This also ties into consistency. If a child knows the expectations, as well as the consequences if those boundaries are crossed, they will become a well rounded child who knows right from wrong; it will also teach them what behaviors are socially accepted, and what behaviors are not.
Establish Trust
Trust is a two way street. In order for your child to trust you, you must also trust your child. Establish open dialogue. Admit your faults and shortcomings and apologize; it will result in your child admitting their mistakes as well.
Be A Safe Haven
Provide a safe environment for your child to show all of their emotions and be vulnerable. Communicate openly, and listen without judgment.
Be A Role Model
Be the person you want your child to be. Don’t be hypocritical, set an example. Give your child the respect they deserve, and they will likely do the same.
Spend Quality Time
You only have 18 years before your child is deemed an adult. Make the most of those years. Come up with traditions, and make as many special memories as possible. Spending quality time, bonding, and making happy memories will result in your child wanting to spend time with you as they grow.
Every child is different, just as every parent is different. However, consistency, boundaries, trust, providing a safe haven, being a role model, and spending quality time will lay the foundation to raise an incredible child, and have a good relationship throughout their life.
