I recently saw a quote that resonated heavily with me: “When I’m having a trying day with my young children, I pretend that I’ve travelled back in time to spend another day with them when they are little; and it changes my mind set.” I love this; but it also makes me sad.
Too often we overwhelmed by our daily routines, busy schedules, and the unexpected, to truly embrace the moment. There will eventually be a day where Jaiden asks me to carry him for the last time. There will be a day where Nova doesn’t laugh at my funny faces, instead being embarrassed by her “uncool” mom. Thinking about that makes my heart heavy.
Shaun and I went to lunch on the weekend while my parents watched the kids. It was refreshing, and greatly needed; but we found ourselves talking about Jaiden and Nova. It’s important to make time for your spouse as there are rarely moments during the day we have a conversation without being interrupted; and we usually only have about an hour at night to ourselves before I am falling asleep on the couch. But, as much as having time away from your children is important not only you, but for them as well; it is very hard. I feel as though I am missing out on pivotal moments.
Jaiden and Nova won’t want to cuddle with me forever; soon they won’t want to dance with me; or ask me to watch how high they can jump. Time is the greatest thief. Some days I feel irritated by the small things, but it will be those moments that I miss the most. The toys scattered around the house, the fingerprints on freshly cleaned windows, and even the crumbs on the floor. I never want these moments to end. Here’s to embracing the moment.
